You don't know much about me, so let me tell you a little. I'm a single mother of three handsome and talented boys and love watching them play sports. I love sports myself and play competitive volleyball. I love to workout, love to write and REALLY love my church. I think my lifestyle would be pretty normal to most people until they asked me if I'm dating anyone. That's when a conversation gets a little.....sticky.
I haven't dated for three years now. I could if I wanted to, but I choose not to. There are several reasons, but the biggest reason is that I'm waiting on God's leading. This doesn't make sense to a lot of people. They are the ones that say things like, "You've got to put yourself out there", or, "God helps those that help themselves". While those statements may be partially true, there is a greater truth that I'm relying on. God gave me a vision and a faith to believe that if I will just wait for him, he will give me the RIGHT person without me having to go through a series of hurtful or unfruitful relationships.
See, I tried the other way. I dated a lot! The only problem with that is that I lost a little bit of myself which each fruitless relationship. Not only that, I really hate when someone gets hurt, even if it's the other person. I hate being hurt and I hate hurting people. Those men are my brothers in Christ and I don't want to hurt or mislead anyone. That means I wouldn't date anyone unless I got the "go ahead" from God.
I know the God who knows EVERYTHING! That means, he knows where my man is and he knows my address! If I want to find my man...I better find God. This takes so much pressure off me. Last time I checked God was still capable of running the universe...so I'm thinking he could direct my course too.
Maybe you're interested in how this will work out for me. I'm certain of the answer.....but I invite you to follow my posts for as long as you like to see how God answers my prayers. But let this be known - I believe!